At last night’s Oscars we got to see musical numbers, jokes, gorgeous gowns, and acceptance speeches.
The Oscars are a great time to see the good and bad parts of public speaking by the Hollywood elite. We spoke with human interaction expert Blakely Thomas-Aguilar of
iMeet, a cloud-based service that helps groups of people connect, share, and interact via HD video on any device. Here are some lessons we can take from last night’s speeches.
Have an agenda.
Though sometimes we criticize the stars with speeches that, by the sound of them, placed a lot of confidence in Oscar wins, we should actually take notes. On a show that clocked in at four hours, anyone that helped keep it moving should get another Oscar. One of those people who clearly memorized her speech (and has been it doing it all awards season) is Anne Hathaway.
“Anne was very composed on stage, and knew exactly who to thank and why,” says Thomas-Aguilar.
Having a list of topics you want to cover and ideas you want to convey in your presentation is key, she says, especially when you’re only going to get one chance. Be sure to
prioritize, in case you won’t be able to say everything you want.
Inject a little humor, if it’s appropriate.
Though Daniel Day-Lewis takes on the most dramatic of roles and is known for his very disciplined work ethic, his acceptance speech was delightfully light-hearted. The joke about him originally wanting to play Margaret Thatcher was well-delivered. And at four hours in, we all needed a joke.
Keep it short and sweet.
“In real life, there’s rarely an orchestra to start drowning you out when your speech takes too long. That’s all the more reason to stay concise,” says Thomas-Aguilar.
Who struggled? The team from Life of Pi, who won for Best Visual Effects, struggled to get all their thank-yous in before the ominous Jaws theme began drowning them out. Before they could finish, their mics were cut off.
Drop some names.
Thomas-Aguilar says, “What’s in a name? Way more when it’s properly dropped. Being friends with everyone in the room means being strategic about whom to thank and who’ll star in your humble-brag anecdote: ‘Steven [Spielberg] didn’t have to persuade me to play Lincoln, but I had to persuade him that if I was going to do it perhaps Lincoln shouldn’t be a musical.’”
Think about collaborations you want to flag up and top grossing talent you want to be associated with. They’ll appreciate the shout-out and everyone else will know that working with you can make them a star too. Who did it best? Daniel Day Lewis, Best Actor in a Leading Role.
Look presentable.
Yes, most people at the Oscars look fabulous, but one of the women who won for best makeup and hairstyling for
Les Miserables had a hairstyle that looked like she didn’t brush it and then stuck a pencil in it. Not everyone can look like Charlize Theron, but if you are winning an award for your craft, and it happens to be hairstyling, you may at least want to look like you have a reason for winning! This is like making a speech on why it’s important to wear
power suits, and deliver it while wearing overalls.
Let your face do the talking.
Thomas-Aguilar says there’s a reason the nominees don’t just phone in their acceptance speeches.
“Why do we see all the nominees when the winner’s name is called? It’s because reading facial expressions is so deeply ingrained in our minds. That’s also why we can even see faces in inanimate objects, like cars. Non-verbal communication such as facial expressions also helps tell any story. Make sure to think about the sentiment you want to convey in your speech or presentation and focus on it while hitting the cues on your agenda. This will help you sincerely express anything from gratitude and pride to graceful defeat.”
He feels that Jennifer Lawrence, who won for Best Actress, did this best when she was nearly moved to tears in her short, touching acceptance speech.
If you stumble, keep going.
Speaking of Jennifer Lawrence, she tripped on her gorgeous-but-very-large Christian Dior dress on her way up to accept an award. This is pretty scary considering you’re tripping in front of the whole world, but she recovered gracefully and still delivered a great speech. She didn’t let the stumble stop her.
As fellow winner Ben Affleck said, ”It doesn’t matter if you get knocked down in life. All that matters is that you gotta get up.”
Did you learn any surprising lessons from the Oscars? Tell us in the comments!
